Sunday, April 23, 2017

Pedicures and pregnancy 101

Anna has done a few pedicures on me with the works... warm water soak, sugar scrub, then rinse, and lotion afterwards. You can't get better treatment anywhere! Alivia has picked up on this and wanted to help (but do it all herself). If I can steer her clear of the water soak, she's happy with putting on lotion. She applies way too much but keeps squirting more out of the tube to rub on. So I suggested she rub the excess on my belly. She shuddered at the thought that "it might get in the baby's eyes".

One night while eating dinner, Alivia asked me if the baby was getting to eat too. Another time she asked if Ansley was asleep or awake. She also wanted to know if it was August yet. She's pretty considerate of including this baby in our activities. Like when she and I were snuggling on the recliner and Alivia shared extra blanket with me so Ansley would be warm. She was so thoughtful. I just had to keep reminding her of her positions and not to squash her baby sis. Amelia has no concern. She wants up in the recliner too with Alivia and me.

Adalyn wanted to know if the baby was born wearing clothes. Thank goodness, no. She also worries about pain and whether it hurts to have a baby. Alivia upon hearing Adalyn's question wants reassurance that nothing will hurt. And so after I say that it does hurt to have a baby, she cries. So then I say, "It's going to be just fine." And Alivia says "but it won't hurt you, right?" Right.

They like us telling them what size the baby is in relation to fruit/vegetables. Thanks to pregnancy websites, we've been able to update Abigail and Anna ever since the baby was the size of a pea. The other day, Anna asked what size the baby was and according to the website, Ansley was the size of a small doll. Anna said she thought I'd say watermelon. Ok then, spaghetti squash, but not watermelon...yet.

I've got a hernia and have been really trying not to carry Amelia if I don't have to. Abigail and Anna have done much of the heavy lifting of Amelia (who still wasn't walking at 18 months) and Aliza hauls as much as she can too. When Adalyn does it, I'm jumping up because the scene of her unsteadiness is too much to watch. She sure tries to help though and wants to be as big as her big sisters! She gets frustrated when I ask her not to carry Amelia who seems more than half her weight.

And in speaking of weight, we had an ultrasound right before Easter. Ansley weighs about 13 ounces. Adalyn, Alivia, and Abigail went with us to that appointment to see the baby. We had to be very clear to alivia and Adalyn that seeing the baby meant using a special camera that could see the baby in my belly and that we wouldn't be holding her yet. It never gets old. None of it. Every time is just as amazing. Hearing her heartbeat. Watching your daughters light up seeing their new sister. Seeing your husband look at you the way he does. Viewing her organs and brain so miraculously formed. What a mighty God we serve!




Sunday, May 1, 2016

Another one of those "Out of the mouths of Babes" times

I'm all in for having a yard sale when I'm on the front side of it.  Let's get rid of some things and make 500 BUCKS.

And when I'm on the back end of it putting all the crap away, dividing out the hundred earned by the 20 hours of labor, I'm all like, "NEVER AGAIN".

The ultimate highlight of the day was when this man drove into our driveway hauling a smoker that was actually smoking.  (Is that even legal?)

He was shirtless. (and of course, naked, in our girls' opinion)
He had long, dark hair and a short beard.

I was waiting for a blurt out from Alivia about him appearing naked.

But, no.

It was, "Excuse me, but are you Jesus?"

He apologized to her, saying he wasn't but he wished he was. He bought a few things, and left and trailing him was his smoker on wheels, poofing out smoke.  If you didn't know you could crave a smoked piece of chicken at 7:30 in the morning, you can.  If you can be relieved and proud in one moment, it was today when the naked comment wasn't made and it was clear that Alivia knew what Jesus looks like!

Tuesday, February 2, 2016

The fine print

Nightime feedings have three classifications:
1) I wake when Amelia does and crash right after putting her back to bed. 
2) I crash while I feed her. In the rocking chair. Back in bed. On the couch. 
3) I'm wide awake after I put her back to bed. 

If it's a 3 night, then there are sub-classifications:
A) I go start some laundry. 
B) I eat something. 
C) I get on the computer and read my friend's blog or research something like homeschool curriculum until I get sleepy. 

At Amelia's 2 a.m. wake-up, it was a 3B/C.

This is what I found on sale today at Kroger (10 for $10) aaaaaannnd I had a digital coupon for it on my Kroger card if I bought 3. So bought 3, I did. And sampled one just now (at 2:20 a.m.), I did. And researched this website, I did. And liked all the plain ingredients, I did. Mmmm. Shall I have another? Look at all those varieties to try!! 

WAIT....did that say "energy bar"?!!!

D) Wish I hadn't eaten anything and tell myself that next time I want to pull a stunt like B, to count sheep instead. Need. Sleep. Here. 

Thursday, October 8, 2015

First road trip with Amelia

   I just cleaned up vomit in a car seat.  At a gas station. Why do car seat covers have to be so complicated to get off? And how come there's so many nooks and crannies throw up can get into? And how come gas stations don't have plastic knives?  Fortunately, Alivia seems fine now.  Gotta love telling a bare child to stand still half a dozen times in a discreet place in the van so as not to expose her to unsuspecting gas pumpers. In my defense, I've had plenty of experience with sickies puking all over the fresh donned clothes after you get the soiled ones off.  So I'm learning, and I allowed her to stand there naked while I cleaned up the nasty car seat. But the crazy "sick" girl kept climbing all over the seats with newfound energy and freedom from the restraints of her car seat. I hope it's out of her system. And I hope we can get to our friends' house in one piece and have no other dealings of this nature with any other kiddos.

    We're heading to Ohio for the funeral of a dear sweet friend of ours. Her and her husband took us under their wings and included us in their family while we loved in Ohio while Louis was in seminary.  They were our people.  Our family when we had no one close. They included us at family cookouts, golf games, Sunday dinners, and football games. We got close to them and their kids and grandkids. Oh how we loved being part of their lives.  It hit me hard to hear Dixie had died. I know that there's better life waiting on us.  But man, it's so hard losing a loved one.

Tuesday, July 21, 2015

Measurements

Look at our van and you can measure how much we've been on the road lately.
Look at our laundry and you can measure how behind I am.
Look at our furniture and you can measure the time frame of the last time I dusted.

Other measurements under my nose:

  • My weight today was 149.5 so I've gained about 19 pounds so far (with 7 weeks to go- oh boy). 
  • My blood pressure was good at 112/70.
  • Different from our last obstetrician's routine, is that our current doc doesn't measure my stomach each visit.  Today, he decided to measure my stomach and I measured 28 cm.  Not bad if I was 28 weeks pregnant but I'm 33 weeks along and the thought of adding 5 weeks to my due date just about made me throw up. 
  • After an unplanned ultrasound, she's measuring at 4 pounds 13 ounces. 
  • By her stats, she's measuring 33 weeks 5 Days. 
  • He felt like my fluid might be a little low and that's why I probably measured smaller...but after some looking around, he saw several pockets of fluid so he wasn't too concerned. 

Tuesday, June 30, 2015

You might be on vacation if:


  • You eat supper at 10 p.m. when you come back from swimming at the pool.  
  • While on a toll road, you toss in your two quarters and drive on...because you don't know what to do when the light doesn't turn green saying you can pass.  
  • While returning on the toll road, you toss in your two quarters, wait for a green light that doesn't change, then drive on through while the alarm buzzes.  We probably got our picture made. We probably have a citation or two on its way. 
  • Your husband takes your older four girls to the pool so you and your 2 yr. old can catch a nap and returns to you asleep and your 2 yr. old watching "King of the Hill."
  • After laughing about it together, you leave it on long enough to finish theepisode and watch the next one too.  With each commercial break I was begging Louis to change the channel but neither of us had enough energy to get up and change the channel or find the remote.  That's what swimming and sun do to us.  Wears. Us. Out.

    Tuesday, April 28, 2015

    Descriptions

    I was having Aliza blow her nose and her ears must have been popping.
    "Mom, wait". She pushed on both ears with her fingers. "My ears were inside out".

    The other day we stopped at Chick-Fil-A and as we were walking in, I asked the girls what they wanted. Adalyn said she wanted a cheeseburger. After repeating the options again so she could alter her request, she said. "Ugh, I guess I will just have a chicken cheeseburger."


    Thursday, April 9, 2015

    Timely pictures of an untimely project


    This shelf looks simple enough, right?  This was actually the last and easiest.
      

    The crazy-can't-hit-the-studs-and-can't-find-short-screws-so-they-don't-poke-books shelves.  

    Wednesday, April 8, 2015

    Things that make me go ahhh

    There's just nothing like:

    • Windows open on a warm, breezy day. 
    • Clean sheets on my bed.
    • Towels folded perfectly and shelved with the soft bunchy side turned out.
    • A knock-knock joke from the kiddos that makes no sense at all that you laugh at anyway.
    • Turning out the lights in the kitchen at the end of each day.
    • Watching 4 washing machines wash a week's worth of laundry at once (it's just too bad you have to fork out so much at a laundry mat for this "cheap" thrill.)
    • The sound of quiet, but also the sound of giggles.
    • Seeing her understand something in school after so long of it being a mystery.  
    • Mulled cider candles
    • walking across a bare floor and not feeling any particles on your foot. 
    • Hearing your kiddo recite a memory verse. 
    • Having Louis walk in through the door.
    • Putting meals in the freezer. 


    Projects and such

    You know you're a mom of many, if it takes two solid days of changing clothing out for a new season and you're still not done.  You know you're crazy or stupid if you attempt to change out clothes, declutter, pack things away for a yard sale, rearrange some furniture, and finish a project all in the same three days when you have five kids.

    Today, I needed a break.  I picked up the three shelves that have laid up against the wall in the hallway since Louis served on the women's Emmaus Walk.  (I don't even remember how long ago that's been now).  That's a problem I have.  I imagine something to do, and think I can accomplish it in a 2-hour block of time and the reality is, it takes a lot longer to complete than I envisioned.  You wouldn't believe how many half-completed projects I have in my head (and laying around the house).  

    So I said to myself, I'm not going to work on clothes switching today...or at least I will get this shelf project done and then pick back up on the clothing deal, afterward.  Because afterall, it should only take an hour or two.  

    So anyway, a few weeks back, I picked up three pieces of wood from Lowe's, sanded it, stained it and then it was still tacky to the touch so I left it leaning against the wall to dry for a couple weeks hours. In the meantime, I got some L-brackets, spray painted them "Oil rubbed bronze" (which take time to dry in between turning them over to coat the other side).  

    So today, I would attach the dry L-brackets to the untacky stained shelves and hang them up on the wall.  Easy enough.  An hour.  2 to actually put things on the shelves.   

    Gathering tools at our house is always a job (because of all the unfinished projects I start and can't seem to complete).  Can't find the tape measure.  Can't locate the drill.  The list of can't-finds is never-ending.  

    On one of my jaunts to the garage to get something for this project, I catch sight from the kitchen of Alivia (by the pantry) who has the bag of pancake mix upside down and I see it pouring powder all down to the floor.  I pull a gazelle, leaping across the floor to grab it from her. She managed to dump half a Sam's Club bag (do you KNOW how much that is??!!) of Pancake mix that we just opened yesterday when we had pancakes before CBS.  

    So, this is a huge job to clean up. Time consuming.  Tedious.  Dusty. (Have you SEEN the Sam's Bag?)  HALF, I tell you...on the floor.

    I'm wanting to get back to my project, so I sweep most, but leave the vacuuming of the runner for later.  

    Back to the project at hand,
    Feeling pretty DIY-er, I grab the stud finder, locate studs, take wall measurements, transfer the measurements on to the boards.   I attach the L-brackets to the places on the boards where the studs will match up.  I go to attach the shelves to the wall and my screws go through drywall.  I took them out and moved it a hair over.  Still not hitting the studs.  So I had to repeat the process again (unsuccessfully) and finally resorted to removing the L-brackets from the boards and attaching them to the wall first then attached the brackets to the wood.  And you know this all happens without dropping your screws, your level, and the pencil a dozen times each, right?  

    The only screws I could find to attach the shelves to the L-brackets on top, were too long and poked through the shelves (thus, creating hazards on top of the shelves).  At this point, I really didn't care because my 1-hour project was well into it's 3rd hour and I hadn't even reached the fun part of putting things onto the shelves yet. After all the long screws were in, Louis comes in from mowing and points out that the screws are sticking out on top of the shelves and told me he had shorter screws I could have used.  I DID scour the toolboxes pretty well I thought.  So then I am off to replacing the screws...because who wants screw tips sticking into books or finding an unsuspecting finger once a year when I dust up there? 

    So, now its done.  All three shelves.  Hung.  In between this now, daunting task, was tending to kiddos, fixing lunch (and we did have some awesome 3-minute microwave cream cheese dip, and Louis and the girls ate shrimp cocktail).  What a fun lunch!  I also decided to run some water in the microwave to steam it and wipe out later.

    SO while I had tools out, I decided to go ahead and hang up five frames that I spray painted red a few weeks days ago with another project in mind.  Let's do this!  Let me also in between this process, grab things from here and there and add them to the shelves.  Oh, and let me hang up these few frames that have sat here since we moved in.  Oh, let me change out the mantle a little.  Oh, yeah, I wanted those Willow Tree Angels out of the curio and on the new shelf.  ADHD, much?  

    Stopping. Something wreaks.  I must follow my nose (and trust me, it wasn't to find Froot Loops).  I come to hands covered in what looked like a paraffin wax hand treatment, only it was brown.  I get Alivia to the bathtub and start the process of cleaning her up and gagging in between.  

    I go the family room and apparently, she had done the deed right under her sister who was rocking in the rocker, who casually shrugs, "I wondered what that smell was".  It was also smudged into carpet and smeared onto Aliza's devotional book.  Art.  


    Pictures soon (of the project at hand, not the one who tried her hand at art). Surely I can carve out 10 minutes to do that tomorrow.  Along with actually wiping out the microwave instead of running it four times with the bowl of water in there and forgetting to wipe it. 






    Sunday, October 12, 2014

    My Voice

    Today has been an unusually busy-with-good-things day. Fortunately, Adalyn's soccer game for 9 a.m. this morning was canceled yesterday.  Phew.  While we do really enjoy her games, I knew today would be busy and that helped lessen the load a bit. Louis left the house at 7:15 to drive to Sparta for a monthly men's breakfast.  I got up, divided up some potato cheese soup into 3 dishes for a lady (and her family) who had surgery a few weeks ago.  The girls did their traditional staggered waking and stumbling through the house.  We got some oatmeal going and everyone got dressed and sat down to eat. We left and headed out to the nursing home to sing and visit with the residents there until about 11;30.  After that, Louis left to visit with a church member at the E.R. The girls and I went to the other church member's house to deliver the soup, visit and pray with her.  Afterwards, Louis and I conversed on the phone and thought it best to grab lunch in town.  We agreed to meet at Wendy's.  He beat us there.    If there's any feeling of loss of control, let the girls stagger out of the van and catch a glimpse of their daddy in the windows at Wendy's!  One yells, "Daddy" and they all follow suit darting across the parking lot in front of the cars in the drive-thru (with no sense of order, and definitely not stopping to look both ways).  So I holler at them from the driver's seat where I'm turned around getting Alivia out of her car seat, "You didn't look both ways!!!!"  So they trickle back over to the van (again not looking both ways) to repeat the procedure the right way.  (Which wasn't necessary at all at this point. I'm like- just GET OVER THERE SAFELY AND STAY OVER THERE!)  Then as I see them (half who are running back to the sidewalk to get into Wendy's and the other half who are still running back to the van to "do it the right way"), I also see all these faces staring back at us.  These are people eating their lunch in Wendy's dining room.  There's no worse pressure like that of feeling like you have an audience and no worse judgement than feeling like your large family is out of control. Typing it out now, makes me want to throw up at the feeling it produces.

    Anyhow, lunch was enjoyed by all, thankfully.  We got home in between rain showers and got busy getting the van cleaned out.  Ya know, single socks, papers, trash, long forgotten sippy cups...anything that gets left in the van when every time we've arrived home in the last week, it's been to a rain shower.  I even got to (finally) vacuum up crackers from our commute to and from CBS Tuesday.  By today, they had been not only stepped on and made into cracker meal, they were also somewhat soggy by the week's rainy forecast.  Thank you.

    We got the whole job done in around 30 minutes and we booked it to our first birthday party at 2.  It was misty and the playground equipment was wet, but that didn't stop the birthday party or the fun the kids had.  We ended up with one injury from a slippery slide, and lots of grass, mud, and wet clothes.  But hey- our van was clean,  Bring it!

    We booked it home with an hour and 10 minutes to spare before the next birthday party was scheduled to begin at 5 p.m.  Enough time to crank out 5 showers, right?  While the first 2 hopped in the shower together, I ran all the wet clothes to the washing machine and prepped it to begin after showers were over.  After the first two got out, I put the last 3 in together.  They got everything in with a little more assistance from me (getting shampoo and conditioner rinsed out completely).  Then I needed to change because my outfit was damp and there's nothing more pet-peevish to me than being in wet clothing.  We located new outfits for everyone (which is huge considering I'm pretty behind on laundry).  Got hair done.  Ran out the door as Louis left to get some grocery shopping done for us.  Got to the party and I just sat.  I ate, and sat.  And sat.  And talked.  I couldn't move from my chair!  Through this whole day, Alivia NEVER did find herself a nap.  If we take a day trip, she has no problem falling asleep in the car, but today, she never did that.

    So at the party, she kinda zoned out.  Sitting next to me, she snacked on candy, party food, and her sister's Sierra Mist.  Cuz like I said, I was talking.  And not paying much attention to her sipping, until I'd catch a sneak sip or two.  So then she agreed to let some of the older girls "help" her along and run around the party scene with them.  Once I could get enough wind back, I got up and went into the gym and played ball with her.  She had a huge plastic bat which she attempted to golf with. It was fun watching her cute little run and I just got caught up watching her toddle and dodge the older ones who were running and playing Dodgeball.  Somehow, the 2-year-old never once got bumped or hit with the ball while she ran after her ball, apparently lost in her own little world among the kids playing their own games in the same shared space.   As she ran, I secretly imagined an easy transition to bedtime.  Afterall...she had no nap!  And she's played hard at two birthday parties!

    We left the party a little after 7pm.  I'm walking on Cloud 9 as we get into the house.  Clean van, clean kids, and no showers to get.  It's 7:15 and I slip into the massage chair for a bit.  The girls are all completely silent as they watch a little Disney Jr on TV and then they all get ready for bed.  The older girls transition super well into bed and are all quiet.  They are exhausted from a full day of fun.  But not Alivia.  She's pretty wired.  Louis takes her to off to get her to sleep while I go out to the garage and work on my notebook some.   Louis and I have an understanding.  If he has her, I try not to make a peep, because if she hears my voice, then she gets worked up and cries for me....which can be a big setback if he's trying to get her to sleep.  So after about 45 minutes or so I come in from the garage and hit the dryer on.  I immediately hear her call out, "MOM".  She can't see me, I know that for sure.  But while I said nothing at all. she heard my voice.  My voice in this moment was the dryer tumbling.  Doing laundry. It's part of life.  It's part of me.  

    Earlier in the day, I felt I had no voice, when the girls were running across the parking lot at Wendy's when I've told them over and over and over to look and why that is so crucial to their survival.  When I reminded Alivia not to drink her sister's Sierra Mist and I kept catching her sipping.  When I reminded the girls this morning about taking bowls to the sink and cleaning up their areas after breakfast (things I feel like I say over and over again).  That's the voice I want them hearing.  I'm speaking.  It's important they listen!

    But tonight,  I used no words.  When I quietly creeped into the laundry room (the room between the garage and the rest of the house), I simply tapped the "on" button.  The sound of laundry sliding against the drum and the the dull squeak of the rotating barrel...the sound of laundry getting done...that was my voice.  She heard me.  She knew it was me.

    Sometimes, I get discouraged because I want so badly to hear the voice of my Father.  I don't hear Him.  He outlines his expectations of me in The Word.  He "says it over and over again", and I miss it.  I don't listen.  He calls me out.  He repeats His instruction.  He corrects me.  Then as I make a request, a petition, I get impatient.

    me:Why isn't it "yes", Lord?
    Alivia: Why can't I have Sierra Mist, Mom?
    She can't have it because it's not good for her at this stage in her life.  

    me: Why don't you answer me?
    You don't listen.   

    It is the non-traditional forms of communication that often gets my attention.  His voice comes in answered prayers to getting to the gas station when I'm burning fumes.  It's the right song on the radio at the right time.  It's the phone call and message shared when I needed to hear it.  It's the unanswered prayers. It's in the provision.  It's in the unexpected, gentle hug from your non-hugger kiddo.  It's in the beautiful changing leaves in the rainy, foggy day.  That was you, wasn't it?  And the warm feeling arrives instantly.  The comfort.  He's here.   I may not hear His actual voice but His ways and habits are everywhere.  He's at work in my home and I don't even pay attention or give Him credit.  Alivia knew me by the sound of my work, even when no audible word was said.  My work was my voice. The Lord IS at work here in my home.  I simply must listen to His work.    

    My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me.  -John 10:27

    Wednesday, August 20, 2014

    Reading lesson with a 4-year old....Take 1

    I started "Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons" with Adalyn.  She's always asking me how to spell words she wants to write and doesn't even know all of her letters or how to write them yet, let alone read them.  The book will teach her both.  Anna is an exceptional reader and Aliza is getting there.  Adalyn is definitely the youngest "reader" but if she's got the will, I know there's a way.

    Part of the process is saying parts of words to them slowly and asking them to say them fast.

    Our first encounter:
    Me: Sis-ter (sounds are slowly drug out). Now, say it fast.
    Adalyn: SCISSORS

    Me: Let's try that again.  Sisssss-teeeeeer
    Adalyn, with more enthusiasm jumping out of her chair with arms up: SCISSORS!!!!!

    SCISSORS
    SCISSORS
    SCISSORS

    Ok. So maybe she's not ready to read.


    Thursday, July 24, 2014

    Overheard convos in "Life"

    We've got a couple of the girls' friends here.  The group is playing "Life".

    In the newer version, you spin the wheel to see how many babies you get.

    Anna had two kids in her car then spun a "10" which granted her triplets.  Anna slaps her head asking, "What am I gonna do with all these kids?"  Friend says, "If  they all don't fit in your car, you can just leave it out".

    Towards the end, I hear them tallying up their bank accounts.
    "You can sell your babies for $50k."
    "No, you don't sell your husbands.  Or your dog."
     
    Anna says in a disappointed tone, "All I have is 950k." The other team has 16.4 million.

    Not sure how I could live with "only" 950k.



    Tuesday, July 15, 2014

    Secret recipe

    Abigail and Anna came up with a creation all on their own.  So I asked them to share the recipe with me so we could have it for next time.  They really wanted to take it to the church potluck the next day but we had nothing to serve it with.

    It's like a chocolate peanut butter sauce.

    1 scoop chocolate chips
    2 globs peanut butter
    A little sugar
    Spoonful of milk

    Mix it all together. Microwave it for 30 seconds. Maybe longer.

    It'd be good over ice cream, although we didn't have any on hand the two times they've made it.  So they just are it by the spoonful.  Oh, and don't substitute coffee creamer for the milk of you're out of milk.  It doesn't work.

    Results may vary.


    Friday, July 11, 2014

    Lights, darks, and pudding cups

    While pulling out dirty laundry from the hamper to wash, I found a pudding cup.  A new one.  Not half eaten or empty.

    This morning, Adalyn woke apologizing that she helped herself to a bowl of cereal after we all went to bed.  So I'm wondering if the pudding cup was her stash for tonight.  Or Alivia was getting into the pantry again.

    Saturday, June 21, 2014

    Denial

    "What's this that's been spilled on the floor?"

    Adalyn: "Not me".

    Saturday, June 7, 2014

    Home sweet home

    There was some "Clean Shower" spray left here when we moved in.  So after my shower, I used it this morning.  Arm & Hammer came out with it.  "Use daily to prevent soap scum and mildew stains".  Great!!!!  Since I don't really plan to be cleaning tubs in the near future, but rather to be unpacking- sounds like a win/win.

    So I sprayed it and walked away, just like the label suggested.  Abigail walked in there later and asked what that smell was.  I told her.  She said it smelled like someone threw up in there.  Great!!  So now we know how it works- it prevents soap scum because you won't want to go in there to shower anymore because of the overwhelmingly foul odor that will knock you out.

    Tuesday, June 3, 2014

    Can't wait to sit down....and do some laundry

    I may be drying my last load of clothes in our Byrdstown house.  I feel so called to do some laundry as a way to relax.  I'm completely drained of moving.

    Thursday, May 29, 2014

    Convo

    So Anna asks me what Alivia will be able to do by her second birthday.  (We are talking through Alivia's uncontrollable, unexplainable crying fit).  I tell her and Adalyn that Alivia will grow out of these fits hopefully.  Anna asks me if she'll be talking more and I explained that she's learning new words as we teach them to her.  So Anna said, "Alivia, can you say ball?" Adalyn said, "Alivia, can you find your armpit?"

    Oh the joys of having multiple teachers!!!

    Monday, May 26, 2014

    Min-i-mi-zing....in baby steps

    In an effort to scale back...we're talking waaaaay back... I thought I'd google some ideas for where and how to get started with this.  It turns out, there's a word describing the desire to survive on the least amount possible.  It's called minimalism.  I thought I was just nuts.  Additionally, there are others out there like me, frustrated when that needed thing can't be found, the Christmas gift from 3 years ago hasn't been touched because you can never find the time to do it, and most organizing projects is just moving clutter from one place to another.  We can't do those things we intend to do and be about because we are all so consumed with stuff.  Then we feel guilty we don't do this or that with that or this.
    So I found a few starting places.  One was a project to scale down to 100 things.  100?!  I've got 100 things in my purse!  There's half that amount in our daughters' dress-up container.  Anna's Littlest Pet Shop collection has that many pieces.

    Another idea was to pair down your wardrobe to 35 things. Then to box up the others and in 3 months, send it away to donate.  I inherited that many pajamas from an aunt who passed away.  

    So I guess we'll start with reducing our things in our two level home to fit into our new one level home.  How in the world do you eliminate an entire level??

    A few yard sales here.  And one section at a time.  It's no wonder exhaustion is looming so much these days.